Built by friends who got tired of swiping

We got tired of watching friends settle

A group of friends, frustrated by dating apps that optimize for swipes instead of compatibility. So we built something different.

The Problem

What We Saw

Our friends were brilliant, ready for real connection, but stuck in the same cycle: swipe, match, small talk, ghosting. Repeat.

The apps weren't trying to solve the problem. They were optimized for dopamine hits—not compatibility. Quick sign-ups, 5 surface questions, and endless swiping. It's fast, frictionless, and totally ineffective for finding someone you'll actually connect with.

Our Solution

Friction by Design

We ask 28 questions. It takes 7 minutes. That's intentional. The friction filters for people who are serious about finding compatibility, not just passing time.

Big Five Personality

The gold standard in personality psychology

Attachment Theory

How you bond, connect, and handle conflict

Values Alignment

What matters most to you in life and relationships

What We Believe

Compatibility is science, not chance

Understanding yourself comes before finding someone else

The right friction attracts the right people

Ready to discover yourself?

Take 7 minutes to understand your relationship patterns and what you truly need.

Begin Your Journey